Showing posts with label Geneology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Geneology. Show all posts

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Progeny

These are my boys.  Five of them in all.  I am immensely proud of them, in the righteous, pleased way and not the unrighteous, boastful way.  They are from l-r Stuart, Aaron, Nolan ( middle and youngest), Sean and Owen.  They are big, happy, crazy, silly, fun, smart, talented, two are husbands and dads, two are cops, and all are students of life.
 
I don't know how my life would be without them and I am not ready to try.  I love them so much.  Thanks boys for being my sons!
Love,
M

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Aunt Lola

Jan's Aunt Lola passed away August 1, 2012.  She was 91 years old.  She was such a sweet lady and had many friends and admirers.  I was one of them.  Here are a few things I know about her and learned about her at the funeral. 

She was a little sister of my husband's father, Leo Robison.
She was the wife of George Crow  for 37 years and after he passed away she became the wife of Cort Dixon, who was a high school sweetheart and a rival of George.  Cort passed away three weeks before Lola.  Each of her husbands loved and adored her.  She was good at picking her men.

She is the mother of Diana and the grandmother of Tyler, Camden and Catherine.  They were the loves of her life.

She welcomed me into the family in 1980 with open arms and open heart.  She was truly happy for us and made me feel so loved.

This is the reason I felt that I had to go to her funeral.

She was an amazing cook and loved to serve her guests, but occasionally when she wasn't in the mood she would put a can of tuna in the center of the dining table and that was the signal to Uncle George that he was to take them out for dinner that night.

  I am posting a recipe of hers below.  It was served by her last old friend on earth at her funeral luncheon. I went and scoured my recipe books that she had given me over the years and it was not in there, but when I looked in Jan's mother's (another amazing cook) recipe file, I found it.

Here it is:



Fruited Cherry Salad

Combine in saucepan and cook over medium heat until thickened, stirring frequently....

1 can (1 lb) sour pie cherried and liquid

1 can (1 lb) crushed pineapple and liquid

2/3 Cup sugar

1/4 cup flour

2 drops red food coloring

Remove from hear.  Add, stirring until dissolved...


1 package ( 3 oz) orange flavored gelatin


Cool until slightly thickened.  Stir in...

2 large bananas, mashed
1 cup chopped nut

Pour into 6 cup mold.  Chill till firm. 

Makes 8-10 servings.


I don't have a photo of this dish but I can attest to it's deliciousness.


I love you, Aunt Lola



Sunday, September 18, 2011

Great Grandmother Little

Fannie Monroe Long was born 7 March 1885 in Jacksboro, Texas, in Jack County. She was she oldest child of Jake M. Long and Elizabeth Obarts. She married Jessie Bester Little 7 November 1901. Their children were Bonnie Elizabeth Little, Sam Bester Little, Nancy Edith Little, Fannie Mae Little, Eula Alma Little, Mertie Jake Little, and Clarabelle Little.
This is a photo of Grandmother Little with her oldest child, Bonnie Elizabeth, who was also known as Willie. All the children had nicknames that were given to them by their older half brother Earl and these were the names that most of us remember them being called by.

This is a photo of Grandmother Little's youngest brother John, who was born January 1898.



This is Jake Long, born 1892, and died April 1914, of meningitis. Grandma Pat told us the story of going to his funeral and having to kiss him in his coffin. It was a wonder that more of them didn't die from meningitis too. He died the same week that Aunt Babe (Mertie Jake) was born and so she was named after him.


This is a photo of another brother, Sam Long, born 24 April 1896, he had only one leg. This photo shows them in front of an oil rig. According to the 1930 census of Love County, Oklahoma his wife is Vinnie, and children are Albert W., Gladys L, Ruby L, and Sam R.J. I wonder if he lost his leg in an accident in the oil fields or as a farm worker. Probably will never know.



This is Great Grandmother's sister, Bonnie Elizabeth Long Sigman and her husband Jim. They had three children, Dottie, Jake and Elizabeth. They are listed in the 1920 census but then in the 1930 census they are both gone and the kids are living with the oldest sister in Wichita Falls. I don't know what happened to them.




Some things I do know about Great Grandmother Little. She was greatly loved by her husband, Jessie Bester Little. She died of breast cancer in 1916, when they went to Dallas to the doctor and received the diagnosis of cancer he took her and bought her a cameo brooch, that is now owned by my sister Elizabeth. He sold his farm to pay for her medical bills. While she was sick, my grandmother was taught to run the house, and do the cooking at the age of eight years. She also was the one who changed the dressings on Grandmother Little's breast as the cancer advanced. Grandma Pat told my sister Elizabeth that she was the first woman in her family to live past the age of forty. All her female relatives had died of cancer before the age of forty, including her mother, Fannie Monroe Long, grandmother,Elizabeth Obarts, aunt, Bonnie Elizabeth Long and sister, Nancy Edith (Billie). I wonder what that would feel like to be approaching that birthday and wondering what would happen to you? I am making the assumption that Elizabeth Obarts died of cancer, as well as Bonnie Long Sigman and we do know that Billie (Nancy Edith) also had breast cancer and died of a brain tumor after the cancer was treated. Billie was actually 42 when she died.




I also know that Fannie Monroe Long loved her family very much, since she named all of her children after her own brother's and sister. She is buried in the Illinois Bend cemetery in Montague County, Texas.




As I study the family history information and talk to my family members about the different stories that they've been told I feel even more close to the past away relatives. I love my family so much that sometimes it hurts!




Malachi 4:6.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Jesse Bester Little

J.B. Little was my great grand-father. He was born in New Albany, Union County, Mississippi on February 15, 1873. His father was Jack Little and his mother was Nancy Tucker. His parents died when he was about 5-6 years old. I gathered this information from the 1880 Federal Census from Union Co, Mississippi as he was living with a family named Smith and his occupation was listed as apprentice. His older brother Moses was also living there as an apprentice. He came to Texas with the Smiths, and their daughter married and moved to the Grady area and that is when Grandad got the idea to move to this part of the country. I don't know much about his early childhood but he was a hard worker and must have learned that as an orphan at an early age. He also had a sister named Mattie and another brother named Dan. I have a note that there was another brother named Joseph with a question mark by that. I don't know if that is accurate and would need to verify. Jack and Mattie died in some sort of epidemic. There are still Little's in Union Co, Mississippi and Mother and Daddy have been through there and stopped to visit them. They say they are related to our Littles. J.B. married Gertie Fox around 1893. They had a son named Earl Homer Little, another named Jessie and a baby that died at birth. There are no records of this but from Grandmother Pat. Gertie died, leaving J.B. and Earl. He married again to my great-grandmother in 1901. Her name was Fannie Monroe Long. With her he had seven more children; Bonnie Elizabeth (Willie), Sam Bester, Nancy Edith (Billie), Fannie Mae (Pat) Little, Eula Alma (Dink) Little, Mertie Jake (Babe) Little and Clarabelle Little who died in infancy. Great Grandmother Little died of breast cancer in 1916, when my grandmother was 8 years old, leaving J.B. a widower once again with a large family. He had sold the farm to pay the medical bills for Fannie and then became a tenant farmer who worked in the oil fields and came home every few weeks to buy groceries and check on the kids. I am always amazed at the stories that Grandmother Pat would tell us about going to school, working in the fields and doing chores by themselves. She said that the neighbors came to visit alot, but as an adult she realized the reason they came visiting was to check on all those kids living by themselves. Around 1920 they moved to Lela Lake around Clarendon,Texas and stayed there for a few years, then moved to Hereford, Texas.
This Model A, was always parked in the middle of the equipment lot when I was a kid. Us girls would play in it and wonder at it and ask alot of questions. It was Grandad Little's car. They told us about how he would come barreling around the corner into the driveway at 30 mph. He got this car after his daughter Willie, who was living in Florida at the time, was shot. It had been her car. She had a son named Walter(Sonny) who was about 12 years old and Aunt Dink was also living down there with her. Grandad rode the bus to Tampa and drove the car back to Texas with Sonny and Aunt Dink. He finished raising Sonny until Sonny joined the service. Sonny and his wife, Lillian,had 3 children and they retired from the service in Austin. The old car is still on the place, it belongs to Teresa. She was the oldest grandchild and Grandad Little left the car to her. After Grandad came back with Sonny he built another house north of this one about 1/2 mile and lived there. It is no longer there but the trees are. It is a very pretty homesite.
This is the house that Grandad Little built for his family when they moved to Hereford. He bought this place west of Hereford and broke the land out from sod. Dad tells the story of a prairie fire that Grandad fought, Daddy doesn't remember it but does remember hearing the story. After this summer of fires in Texas it makes it seem all that much more real. This house was only a five room house with no indoor plumbing. That was added at a later time. One day I got to thinking that probably they hadn't had indoor facilities the whole time the house was built and asked Daddy about it and he said around the late 40's they got indoor plumbing and added a lean-to porch on the back for the toilet and bathing. The outhouse was behind the house past the cedars. It is not there any more, nor any sign of it. Grandad lost the farm around 1933-34, it had been bought when land prices were high, $300/acre and he couldn't make the payments. Grandaddy Paul had a great crop of Sudan and was able to buy the note. He stored the seed and the next year the price for it was $9/lb. Grandaddy Paul bought the land back for $12/acre with the profits from the Sudan crop. This was during the dust bowl days of the Great Depression. Paul and Pat and the boys had moved down to Springlake but came back when they bought the farm and then began living in this house. This house was moved around 1950 so they could build the new house in it's place, because of the trees and the well were already in place. They lived in it while building and then it became vacant for a while. Then Mother and Daddy got married and needed a home, so it was fixed up again and became our home. We moved to town in 1971, as we then had four kids in the family and needed a bigger home. Many happy memories in that house. Daddy always said he could hear Grandad Little walking in the house, now whether he really could or only said it to tease us kids, I don't know. I really think he could feel the spirit and the love that Grandad had for his family in that house.
This is picture of Grandad Little in his later years with the surviving children. Grandad Little, with Pat, Dink, Sam and Babe. He is in the living room of the above house and is sitting in a rocking chair that Mother and Daddy still have. After Mother and Daddy got married they needed some household goods, and were invited to go into Grandad Little's house and take what they needed. He had passed away in 1956. They got this rocker, that had been put up on a platform making it easier to get in and out of, a kitchen table and chairs, and an iron skillet. They still cook eggs every morning in the skillet and have the table in the front room. I never knew Grandad Little since he died three years before I was born, but somehow feel that I knew him since he was always referred to in a loving way, and we had so many of his things around our home and his farm became our home too.

This is picture of him when he was younger, I think around the time that he married Fannie Monroe Long. She was a beautiful woman. I will make another post devoted to her. I don't know much about her but know that she loved her family as almost all of her children were named after her side of the family. Grandad must have grieved sorely about losing his two wives and children. Daddy said he was always happy when a baby got old enough to eat off the table because that meant they would probably survive as he didn't need his mama as much after that. Infant death was a real part of people's lives in those days.







I am grateful to have come from a goodly family, love is always there and respect and hard work were taught to me.



Thanks Mom and Dad.