Sunday, September 18, 2011

Great Grandmother Little

Fannie Monroe Long was born 7 March 1885 in Jacksboro, Texas, in Jack County. She was she oldest child of Jake M. Long and Elizabeth Obarts. She married Jessie Bester Little 7 November 1901. Their children were Bonnie Elizabeth Little, Sam Bester Little, Nancy Edith Little, Fannie Mae Little, Eula Alma Little, Mertie Jake Little, and Clarabelle Little.
This is a photo of Grandmother Little with her oldest child, Bonnie Elizabeth, who was also known as Willie. All the children had nicknames that were given to them by their older half brother Earl and these were the names that most of us remember them being called by.

This is a photo of Grandmother Little's youngest brother John, who was born January 1898.



This is Jake Long, born 1892, and died April 1914, of meningitis. Grandma Pat told us the story of going to his funeral and having to kiss him in his coffin. It was a wonder that more of them didn't die from meningitis too. He died the same week that Aunt Babe (Mertie Jake) was born and so she was named after him.


This is a photo of another brother, Sam Long, born 24 April 1896, he had only one leg. This photo shows them in front of an oil rig. According to the 1930 census of Love County, Oklahoma his wife is Vinnie, and children are Albert W., Gladys L, Ruby L, and Sam R.J. I wonder if he lost his leg in an accident in the oil fields or as a farm worker. Probably will never know.



This is Great Grandmother's sister, Bonnie Elizabeth Long Sigman and her husband Jim. They had three children, Dottie, Jake and Elizabeth. They are listed in the 1920 census but then in the 1930 census they are both gone and the kids are living with the oldest sister in Wichita Falls. I don't know what happened to them.




Some things I do know about Great Grandmother Little. She was greatly loved by her husband, Jessie Bester Little. She died of breast cancer in 1916, when they went to Dallas to the doctor and received the diagnosis of cancer he took her and bought her a cameo brooch, that is now owned by my sister Elizabeth. He sold his farm to pay for her medical bills. While she was sick, my grandmother was taught to run the house, and do the cooking at the age of eight years. She also was the one who changed the dressings on Grandmother Little's breast as the cancer advanced. Grandma Pat told my sister Elizabeth that she was the first woman in her family to live past the age of forty. All her female relatives had died of cancer before the age of forty, including her mother, Fannie Monroe Long, grandmother,Elizabeth Obarts, aunt, Bonnie Elizabeth Long and sister, Nancy Edith (Billie). I wonder what that would feel like to be approaching that birthday and wondering what would happen to you? I am making the assumption that Elizabeth Obarts died of cancer, as well as Bonnie Long Sigman and we do know that Billie (Nancy Edith) also had breast cancer and died of a brain tumor after the cancer was treated. Billie was actually 42 when she died.




I also know that Fannie Monroe Long loved her family very much, since she named all of her children after her own brother's and sister. She is buried in the Illinois Bend cemetery in Montague County, Texas.




As I study the family history information and talk to my family members about the different stories that they've been told I feel even more close to the past away relatives. I love my family so much that sometimes it hurts!




Malachi 4:6.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

New Windows At Our Home!

Well after 20 years in this house and 20 years freezing every winter, and 20 years of my family referring to our home as Valley Forge, we took the plunge and got new windows. They are beautiful and here are some shots of the work being done.
Three guys showed up at 7:30 a.m. and had them all (13 windows and a sliding door) installed by 2:00 p.m. They worked hard and fast. They were done by K & H Home Improvements in Denver and this is not a paid ad.
The windows are by a company called Gorell. They are triple paned and work and look great.


I had a little help that day with the twins here. Levi kept disappearing and going into Nolan's room, where all the good toys are kept.



Back bedroom window missing, lots of fresh air and the weather couldn't have been better for the workers.



Here they are almost done!
I love them already and can't wait for some cold weather to compare my utility bills. We also had 16 inches of insulations blown in the attic and new gutters applied so hopefully we won't have any ice dams on the roof this year. Bring the cold weather on!

Friday, September 2, 2011

Patio Furniture

A couple years ago I was looking all over Craiglist for the perfect patio furniture. I wanted wrought iron so it wouldn't blow away, and it would last, I wanted heavy because cheap stuff looks cheap. Alas, I couldn't afford anything that I liked. Age old problem. For as long as we have lived in our house there was another house in our neighborhood that had this stuff, thrown out in the backyard, willynilly, upside down and neglected. It had no cushions and looked very unwanted. So one evening on my way home from work I stopped and asked if I could buy it. They said I could just have it. I was ecstatic. I ran home and got the truck and boys to load and had ourselves a sofa, rocker, another chair and a side table. They were painted a very pale green, and I wanted a timeless look so we repainted them in a black. I bought foam on sale at Joann's and then for batting bought some cheap comforters at the thrift store. I bought the canvas on sale from Fabric.com and away we went.
A couple years later (yes I am a big procrastinator) I got these lovelies all done and I am so proud of the way they look. They are comfortable and pretty. You can now take a nap or read a book out on the patio and we have adequate seating for guests. The pillows are made from fabric that I had on hand and tie in to the royal blue cushions on the patio chairs that go with the dining table.

My motto: It never hurts to ask!




Sunday, August 28, 2011

Things I've been doing this summer-the toy box!

I've become a blog stalker! My kids tease me about it but it is fun, and they want me to do it as they get revenue from my clicking on their sites. Anyway I've learned so much from my reading online about furniture refinishing and I've wanted to try my hand at it. This toy box I purchased many years ago for $2.00 at a garage sale. Funny how I remember the price I paid. Anyway it has spent about 18 years in the closet full of toys, would get the occasional clean out, and when we put a new bed in Nolan's room, I decided I would spruce it up too.



We cleaned it out, and washed it down. It is a heavy piece that someone built for their kids, and it had paneling for sliding doors.


I gave the doors some coats of chalk board paint that I bought at Ace because they had it in a spray and Lowes only had a gallon in a paint on kind.




Then we gave the box a couple coats of Rustoleum bright red spray paint. Now it looks much nicer in his room than the old tan, don't you think? And it is once again FULL of toys.





Saturday, August 27, 2011

Jesse Bester Little

J.B. Little was my great grand-father. He was born in New Albany, Union County, Mississippi on February 15, 1873. His father was Jack Little and his mother was Nancy Tucker. His parents died when he was about 5-6 years old. I gathered this information from the 1880 Federal Census from Union Co, Mississippi as he was living with a family named Smith and his occupation was listed as apprentice. His older brother Moses was also living there as an apprentice. He came to Texas with the Smiths, and their daughter married and moved to the Grady area and that is when Grandad got the idea to move to this part of the country. I don't know much about his early childhood but he was a hard worker and must have learned that as an orphan at an early age. He also had a sister named Mattie and another brother named Dan. I have a note that there was another brother named Joseph with a question mark by that. I don't know if that is accurate and would need to verify. Jack and Mattie died in some sort of epidemic. There are still Little's in Union Co, Mississippi and Mother and Daddy have been through there and stopped to visit them. They say they are related to our Littles. J.B. married Gertie Fox around 1893. They had a son named Earl Homer Little, another named Jessie and a baby that died at birth. There are no records of this but from Grandmother Pat. Gertie died, leaving J.B. and Earl. He married again to my great-grandmother in 1901. Her name was Fannie Monroe Long. With her he had seven more children; Bonnie Elizabeth (Willie), Sam Bester, Nancy Edith (Billie), Fannie Mae (Pat) Little, Eula Alma (Dink) Little, Mertie Jake (Babe) Little and Clarabelle Little who died in infancy. Great Grandmother Little died of breast cancer in 1916, when my grandmother was 8 years old, leaving J.B. a widower once again with a large family. He had sold the farm to pay the medical bills for Fannie and then became a tenant farmer who worked in the oil fields and came home every few weeks to buy groceries and check on the kids. I am always amazed at the stories that Grandmother Pat would tell us about going to school, working in the fields and doing chores by themselves. She said that the neighbors came to visit alot, but as an adult she realized the reason they came visiting was to check on all those kids living by themselves. Around 1920 they moved to Lela Lake around Clarendon,Texas and stayed there for a few years, then moved to Hereford, Texas.
This Model A, was always parked in the middle of the equipment lot when I was a kid. Us girls would play in it and wonder at it and ask alot of questions. It was Grandad Little's car. They told us about how he would come barreling around the corner into the driveway at 30 mph. He got this car after his daughter Willie, who was living in Florida at the time, was shot. It had been her car. She had a son named Walter(Sonny) who was about 12 years old and Aunt Dink was also living down there with her. Grandad rode the bus to Tampa and drove the car back to Texas with Sonny and Aunt Dink. He finished raising Sonny until Sonny joined the service. Sonny and his wife, Lillian,had 3 children and they retired from the service in Austin. The old car is still on the place, it belongs to Teresa. She was the oldest grandchild and Grandad Little left the car to her. After Grandad came back with Sonny he built another house north of this one about 1/2 mile and lived there. It is no longer there but the trees are. It is a very pretty homesite.
This is the house that Grandad Little built for his family when they moved to Hereford. He bought this place west of Hereford and broke the land out from sod. Dad tells the story of a prairie fire that Grandad fought, Daddy doesn't remember it but does remember hearing the story. After this summer of fires in Texas it makes it seem all that much more real. This house was only a five room house with no indoor plumbing. That was added at a later time. One day I got to thinking that probably they hadn't had indoor facilities the whole time the house was built and asked Daddy about it and he said around the late 40's they got indoor plumbing and added a lean-to porch on the back for the toilet and bathing. The outhouse was behind the house past the cedars. It is not there any more, nor any sign of it. Grandad lost the farm around 1933-34, it had been bought when land prices were high, $300/acre and he couldn't make the payments. Grandaddy Paul had a great crop of Sudan and was able to buy the note. He stored the seed and the next year the price for it was $9/lb. Grandaddy Paul bought the land back for $12/acre with the profits from the Sudan crop. This was during the dust bowl days of the Great Depression. Paul and Pat and the boys had moved down to Springlake but came back when they bought the farm and then began living in this house. This house was moved around 1950 so they could build the new house in it's place, because of the trees and the well were already in place. They lived in it while building and then it became vacant for a while. Then Mother and Daddy got married and needed a home, so it was fixed up again and became our home. We moved to town in 1971, as we then had four kids in the family and needed a bigger home. Many happy memories in that house. Daddy always said he could hear Grandad Little walking in the house, now whether he really could or only said it to tease us kids, I don't know. I really think he could feel the spirit and the love that Grandad had for his family in that house.
This is picture of Grandad Little in his later years with the surviving children. Grandad Little, with Pat, Dink, Sam and Babe. He is in the living room of the above house and is sitting in a rocking chair that Mother and Daddy still have. After Mother and Daddy got married they needed some household goods, and were invited to go into Grandad Little's house and take what they needed. He had passed away in 1956. They got this rocker, that had been put up on a platform making it easier to get in and out of, a kitchen table and chairs, and an iron skillet. They still cook eggs every morning in the skillet and have the table in the front room. I never knew Grandad Little since he died three years before I was born, but somehow feel that I knew him since he was always referred to in a loving way, and we had so many of his things around our home and his farm became our home too.

This is picture of him when he was younger, I think around the time that he married Fannie Monroe Long. She was a beautiful woman. I will make another post devoted to her. I don't know much about her but know that she loved her family as almost all of her children were named after her side of the family. Grandad must have grieved sorely about losing his two wives and children. Daddy said he was always happy when a baby got old enough to eat off the table because that meant they would probably survive as he didn't need his mama as much after that. Infant death was a real part of people's lives in those days.







I am grateful to have come from a goodly family, love is always there and respect and hard work were taught to me.



Thanks Mom and Dad.












Monday, July 11, 2011

Summer 2011

Nolan has a new room decor, we bought a full size bed, painted it ( it was an antique iron bed, that had been painted gold) and moved the bunk beds out. Have you ever made up a bunk bed? It is a two man job and you must move the bed out, remove the mattress, put it back and then they just mess it up again. So this one will grow with him and be easier to make. He loves it.


Here I am out painting it in the backyard. I told Jan the the best thing for him about the new room was that he didn't have to paint anything. He agreed. I sewed new curtains also and repainted the toy box.




Independence Day weekend we went to Texas. Owen came with his friend Adam Raines, Sean and Krysten came and Jan was able to make it also. It was a good visit with the relatives. The drought is so terrible there now and so there were no fireworks. We enjoyed the ones on TV and didn't burn anything up. I love my Mom and Dad. Nolan loves them too as you can see in this photo.



Nolan, Aaron, Milly, Sean and Levi up a tree. They are still as crazy as ever. We are enjoying our summer. This was the day they took all the furniture that I had been storing in our garage to Aaron's new house. You can almost see the floor in the garage and I am having glimmers of hope that I might have my car in there for the winter.







Milly and Levi have caught the gun bug too, and love the water guns. Milly be careful or you'll put your eye out. We hope you all are having a beautiful summer too!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Making the Most out of Food Storage Mistakes



Several months ago, maybe even a year or more I bought 4 cans of asparagus. After eating one of them, I realized that canned asparagus is NOT good. So the other three cans just sat in my pantry getting dusty. I had been trying to come up with a way to use it and not waste it, and on Sunday when all the kids came over for dinner I made Cream of Asparagus soup. It was tasty, the girls asked for the recipe so here goes!


Cream of Asparagus Soup

1/2 onion chopped

2 tablespoons olive oil

2 tablesponns butter

3 cans asparagus

1 can evaporated milk

1/2 cup flour

2 cans chicken broth

salt

pepper
garlic powder

chili pepper flakes

sage


Saute the chopped onion in the oil and butter. Add flour to make a light roux. Then add the broth, asparagus and the milk and cook until thickened. Season to taste with salt, pepper, chili pepper flakes, garlic powder and sage. After simmering, blend to puree with an immersion blender or in a regular blender. Heat gently and serve. May use cream, sour cream or other dairy products to make creamy.


This was delicious and had a hint of heat from the chili pepper flakes.

I hope you enjoy girls.